Showing posts with label behavior adaptations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label behavior adaptations. Show all posts

Monday, July 23, 2012

Here’s the Smart Stuff About Styles - Part 1 of 2


“Treat Others As They’d Like to Be Treated” and see if you can’t make a difference in some relationships – personal OR professional. Everything this month has been leading up to this.

This is People Reading 301: Adapting to Other Styles


 
Remember: simplicity and authenticity,
not false behaviors

If You Are a strong D try these simple adaptations:

To Interact with a “D”
Be yourself.  One “D” communicates with another “D” fairly well.

To Interact with an “i”
Be a little friendlier than usual, and not quite as business-like.  You should get along easily with an “i.”

To Interact with an “S”
Slow down, present assurances, give more detail, be friendlier, give them a chance to digest facts, don’t overstress new and innovative items.

To Interact with a “C”
Present plenty of proof and facts, make sure all questions are answered, take it slower than usual, don’t be pushy or go too fast.


If You Are a strong i try these simple adaptations:

To Interact with a “D”
Don’t tell jokes or make small talk.  Stay very business-like and don’t waste time.

To Interact with an “i”
You’ll have no trouble relating, but just remember to conduct some business.

To Interact with an “S”
Don’t become overly friendly until you’ve earned trust.  Stick to facts and figures.  An “S” will enjoy some socializing and small talk, but still needs lots of basic information in order to make decisions.

To Interact with a “C”
This could be your most challenging interaction.  “C’s” are not impressed by storytelling, time-wasting, or socializing.  Give facts, figures, and proof.

 Tomorrow: Adaptations for S's and C's

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